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One of the greatest
challenges as a working single mom is balancing
motherhood, homemaking and career. Home with a
Heart has taught me how to more effectively
manage these roles, resulting in a more
meaningful and fulfilling life.
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Karen Stowell
Publications Editor, Single Mother of One
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I had been married for ten years. After my 4th son was born, things just
went downhill. My marriage was falling apart -
we had no communication. My husband called me
out of the blue one day to tell me that we were
all moving to Canada to live with my parents.
We
sold everything in the
house and our children and I moved here. My
husband was supposed to follow one month later,
but he never came; that was four years ago. I
ended up living with my parents for a while and
then eventually moved into a townhouse with my
children. My husband sent little money and
sparse payments, but then eventually even that
support came to an end. I had nowhere to turn
but social assistance. Previously, my husband had control of all areas of our lives: finances,
parenting etc. Being a single parent was
incredibly overwhelming to me and the children
had a great deal of difficulty adjusting.
When I met Elaine, my
children were controlling our home and I wasn't
coping at all. But because of Home with a Heart,
my children and I are enjoying each other again
and our home is in order and routine. My
children help out now and we therefore have more
time together. I am also organized with meals,
housework, parenting. Home with a Heart helped
me to identify a need for further computer
training. Having graduated from the training, I
volunteered with Home with a Heart for two
months. That experience built my self-confidence
and I am now employed with a great National
company.
I have so much less
stress in my life and all my friends say how
good this program has been for me. It gives me
comfort to know I can handle my home and
children and although everyday there is
something new to cope with and it's not always
easy, thanks to Home with a Heart, I know how to
bring my home and children back into order.
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Sonia Bailey
Single
Mother of Four
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I have been a
single mother for 10 years. My three older
children are on their own and one is in high
school. After an episode with manic depression I
went to the bottom and turned to the government
for assistance. I was really depressed because I
had no vision of where I was going or what I
needed to be doing to figure it out.
During the Home with a Heart
classes I got a clear vision for where I could
start the whole process by turning to my home.
By organizing my home, I felt I was organizing
my life. I learned to set small attainable goals
so I got a sense of reward. Since finishing the
program, I know that I always have a basis to go
back to if I feel overwhelmed.
I was able to accept my
disability and put a plan into place that fills
my day with homemaking, part-time accounting,
and volunteerism in a café while recovering
with a small disability pension. Now, I run my
own business and want to help other women in my
situation. Home with a Heart was the catalyst
for all this change.
Jacqueline Stokes
Single
Mother of Three
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I immigrated
from Zimbabwe. I didn't know anything about
cleaning and hygiene. What I learned from Home
with a Heart will last because its within. Now I
can teach it to my daughter and she can pass it
on when she has children.
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Catherine Muyezwa
Single
Mother of One
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I wish I had
this program years ago. It could have made the
last eight years as a single mom so much better.
My children ranged in age from toddler to eight
years old when my husband left. I turned to the
government for assistance and then took on a
part time job. After an expected bout with
cancer, my home was in upheaval and my
confidence diminished.
I struggled to return to my part time job
when I took the Home with a Heart program. I am
grateful for what I have learned. Taking the
steps in the program guided me to bring
everything in order in the home. This in turn
helped me regain my self-esteem so I was able to
step out and take a home-based computer course.
This led to a good full time job and financial
independence, while still maintaining my role as
a mom in a way I could enjoy. I believe a moms
place is in the home, but as a single mother I
always struggled with fitting the two into one
schedule. Now five years after finishing the
program, I can say that I still am successful in
following the skills I was taught. .
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Tracy Vanderveld
Single
Mother of Four
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I loved taking Home with a Heart even though
I am not a single mother. The course helped me
to realize that my trouble was not me, but how I
was approaching the disaster I used to call
home. Every time I came to class I was able to
pick up new tricks to help me out. My daughter
has benefited from a much more relaxed mommy and
the added bonus of knowing where her place is in
the home. We are able to plan activities to
spend more time with her as well. My husband has
benefited by having a wife who is able to cook,
clean, and manage the home. I am able to make
stuff as hobbies that will help us in the home
and make perfect gifts as well. Thank you so
much!
Robyn Camm
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Home with
a Heart has changed my life in a way I
wanted it to change. I am organized, with a
better perspective on the future for me and my
children, lots of hope and a better self esteem,
less worry and knowing that everything will all
come together in the end. It works; it really
does. I can see myself complete and proud and
successful. Twelve weeks of time well
spent.
Cindy May Mann,
Single Mother of Four
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I was
praying for years for help in my home when I met
Elaine. The fruit of Home with a Heart increases
every day and has brought peace to our home.
Shortly after taking the program, my marriage
was restored.
Anonymous, Single Mother
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Elaine
teaches a systematic, step-by step approach to
managing your home, maximizing efficiency while
minimizing stress. As I began to put the
teachings into practice, I noticed the benefits
almost immediately. Soon afterwards I had a job
again that suited my skills and family.
Anonymous,
Single
Mother of Two
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I didn't
think I would ever find anyone with enough
compassion to help me out of my overwhelming
state. I am so thankful for the help Home with a
Heart gave me. Now I have a home
again!
Nienka
D., Single Mother of One
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For years I
was overwhelmed with homemaking and I didn't
think there was any way out of the situation. I
met Elaine and she taught me the skills to bring
my house in order. The changes have brought a
continuous sense of stability to our home.
Anonymous, Mother of Four
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Within just
a few weeks of starting the program, I was so
happy and enjoying my children again. My
confidence was so low, I didn't feel I could do
anything even though I am a college
graduate.
Joanna I., Single
Mother of Two
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Home with a Heart brought
stability into my life when everything else was
changing.
Valinda G., Single Mother of Two
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This program
is so user friendly. It helps you to become the
very best you can be. Just learning something as
simple as one of the hobbies made a huge
difference in my mothering as I had something to
work on while watching my toddler.
Molly Ross, Single Mother
of One
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